1. If female, how do you like for men to show their interest in you?
Pay attention, find common interests, ask thoughtful questions, offer kindness, demonstrate persistence.
2. How might a man show interest in a female who happens to fit our culture's stereotypical image of attractive without perpetuating stereotypes that men are all just interested in women for their looks?
Presume nothing, accept any disinterest with respectful grace, anticipate worthwhile challenges; request her company, ask intelligent questions, discover her boundaries, suggest mutually enjoyable play (e.g., cinema, sport, dance, party).
3. If female, do you like to know whether a man feels physically attracted to you? At what point in getting to know him do you like to be assured of this?
Indeed. Whenever it occurs to him...provided that he not expect reciprocity but prepare assiduously for any delightful surprises {grin}. (If not interested, I expect myself to decline appreciatively yet gently.)
Good hunting, Gentlemen!
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